Sometimes feeling worse means you are taking steps to get better

Alcohol and/or other drug use mixed up your thinking patterns. For those in early recovery, your brain needs time to adjust to life without chemicals. As this happens, you can have feelings that don't make any sense, such as:



Feeling like you've been asleep for years and can't handle the simplest situation without using.
Feeling grief in letting go of your use.
Feeling stranded and wonder "what now?"
Feeling like you lost the friends or family who are still using.
Feeling that sobriety is like punishment or being deprived.
Feeling strange during ordinary activities because you have forgotten how to do things sober.
Pain from other problems can suddenly resurface.
You can have trouble thinking clearly.
You might struggle with anxiety or depression.
You might "space out".
Impulsive behaviors can pose a challenge.
Your emotions can run to extremes with anger, self-pity, hopelessness, or defensiveness.
It might be difficult to remember things.
It can be difficult to commit to things.
Your physical coordination might not work as well.
You might have trouble sleeping.
You might constantly stress about every aspect of life.
You might feel numb or "drugged" with emotions-depression, anger, helplessness-just like when you were using.


These emotions mean your brain is recovering now that the alcohol or drugs are gone. During this time:



Don't expect too much of yourself. Your physical coordination and ability to concentrate won't work as well for a while.
Try to avoid doing things that could make you feel worse, like eating junk food or drinking coffee.
Find humor in situations instead of feeling sorry for yourself.
Remind yourself that your emotional state will get better soon if you stay sober.
Get as much sleep as possible. Don't worry too much about sleep disturbances. You will sleep better soon.
Eat well, including healthy snacks if you are hungry.
Take vitamins to restore needed nutrition.


As time goes by, you may notice that your head is clearer. Instead of fighting your impulses, you can relax and just go through your day. You can think about the weeks ahead, instead of just today. You are moving into longer-term recovery.



YOU CAN DO THIS!!



The Next Step...Toward a Better Life SAMHSA

Adopt-A-Vet!

You can make a difference in the life of a homeless veteran this holiday season!


Dear Friends and Supporters,

Each year, in advance of the holiday season, we reach out to the community to collect gift items for the veterans in shelters and living on the streets. This provides a homeless veteran with the opportunity to receive gifts such as new clothing, toiletries, gift cards, and other desired items. As a participant in the holiday Adopt-A-Vet program, you, your family, company, or organization can make a big difference to a veteran who is homeless!

You can make a difference today by donating hygiene items(zip lock bags with soap, face towels, deodorant, shaving cream and disposal shaving blades).

To Adopt-A-Veteran, please contact Carl Wilson via comeletusreason@clur.org for more information.

Your support this holiday season is greatly appreciated.

Thank you for sharing in the spirit of giving!

From all of us at
Come Let Us Reason

Managing Stress: How to Cope With Change

Managing Stress: How to Cope With Change

Posted: 05 Nov 2010 11:00 AM PDT

Stress affects us physically and psychologically, and is generally a result of changes we experience in our lives. We can't control everything in our environment, but we can control how we respond to those experiences. Learning how to manage our paradigms and assumptions, taking care of ourselves physically, practicing one or more stress relieving techniques, and developing a personal support system with people we love and trust can all help with making sure that stress doesn't bring us down.